There are two sorts of socialites, as Dr. Andrew Solomon, a psychologist and the creator of “Far From the Tree,” suggests: “Socialites who are to the manner born, whose function is to have connections made with them. And there are those who earn their place, by constantly bringing together people, and then bask in the reflected glory of those introductions.” Ghislaine Maxwell, he mentioned, was in an “ironic position.” She was to the style born, Dr. Solomon mentioned, however “she had to shift gears and become that other kind of socialite,” after her household misplaced its cash.
In each circumstances, although, “socialite” is a time period reserved for ladies. While some males might function equally, they’d by no means be labeled socialites as a result of males are presumed to have particular person identities past their social interactions. And as a result of a socialite’s success relies upon upon an array of attributes nonetheless largely thought of female: allure, poise, grace, magnificence, cultivation and polish.
Ghislaine Maxwell had all of those. Born to nice wealth, she was raised primarily in England in an Italianate mansion and educated at Oxford University. Her father, the newspaper mogul Robert Maxwell, named his yacht after her (the “Lady Ghislaine”). She holds French, British and United States passports and is reputed to talk 4 languages. (She has been overheard in court docket talking fluent French along with her brother.) She is believed to carry licenses to pilot each helicopters and submarines. She has dabbled in environmental philanthropy. After her household misplaced every thing (within the wake of her father’s demise and posthumous embezzlement scandal), Ms. Maxwell moved to the United States and for a time offered high-end actual property — a doubtlessly profitable alternative for a lady along with her upper-class manners, plummy accent and beauty.
As numerous photographs of her exhibit, Ms. Maxwell has all the time been dressed and coifed with elegant, Parisian understatement. For many years, she has worn her darkish hair in a tousled, gamine crop and favored finely tailor-made garments in impartial tones: tweed jackets, silk and cashmere sweaters, collared shirts. She wears little seen make-up and solely minimal jewellery (earrings, an excellent watch). Standing beside extra elaborately adorned ladies, she appears unfussy and assured.
That form of unstudied class attracts folks nonetheless determining the right way to type themselves or aspiring to be taught the cues of a extra elevated social world. Mr. Epstein might have been rich, however he was a Brooklyn-born arriviste searching for legitimacy and mobility among the many moneyed higher courses. Ms. Maxwell would have appeared the right information. And she got here by way of, inducting him into the very highest circles of British society, introducing him most notably to Prince Andrew. {A photograph} produced at trial even reveals Mr. Epstein and Ms. Maxwell enjoyable at Balmoral Castle, Queen Elizabeth II’s vacation property in Scotland — with Ms. Maxwell clad in an appropriately aristo-shabby plaid flannel.